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BornToFly
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 Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:10 am Post subject: BornToFly's Relationship Advice V.14 |
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New thread everyone!
I want to thank everyone who helps make this thread a success over the years. I really appreciate it. So hard to believe another thread is on it's way. 
Please post any questions you may have about women and relationships, and I will give my advice from a female's point of view. As always, anyone who wants to answer questions, please do. It's always nice to read others point of views....
As a side note as well, anyone reading who may not want to post their story in the thread, but would like an outsiders opinion on things, my PM box is always open.
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BornToFly
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As the day goes on, I will move any and all questions or things I want to respond to from v13 into this thread.
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kgarrett12486
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 10:49 am Post subject: |
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| NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors...
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MrDrew
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 11:10 am Post subject: |
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| kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
The intention of this thread isn't to talk about racks. Let's have a little more respect than that.
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BigBillsFan13
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:00 pm Post subject: |
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| MrDrew wrote: | | kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
The intention of this thread isn't to talk about racks. Let's have a little more respect than that. |
Lol, was thinking the same thing, Drewby.
Anyhow, to NCOUGHMAN, if that's your only measuring stick for beauty, it'll be a long time before you're in a healthy relationship.
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animaltested
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Just got back from the second hang out with the Korean girl. Just like last te dinner was wee bit quiet due to he language barrier. But once we got to drinks it was a lot of conversation and laughing. I think she is just shy speaking English. This might be more of a friendship type of deal, which I'm cool with. Third hangout will be the gauge I assume. |
Repost from the locked thread.
Posting tipsy on the subway doesnt always have the best results. hhaha.
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DalCowboyzRule
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 1:22 pm Post subject: |
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| BigBillsFan13 wrote: | | MrDrew wrote: | | kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
The intention of this thread isn't to talk about racks. Let's have a little more respect than that. |
Lol, was thinking the same thing, Drewby.
Anyhow, to NCOUGHMAN, if that's your only measuring stick for beauty, it'll be a long time before you're in a healthy relationship. |
Says the guy with a Lucy Pinder sig. (not saying you're wrong, just funny)
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NCOUGHMAN
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| DalCowboyzRule wrote: | | BigBillsFan13 wrote: | | MrDrew wrote: | | kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
The intention of this thread isn't to talk about racks. Let's have a little more respect than that. |
Lol, was thinking the same thing, Drewby.
Anyhow, to NCOUGHMAN, if that's your only measuring stick for beauty, it'll be a long time before you're in a healthy relationship. |
Says the guy with a Lucy Pinder sig. (not saying you're wrong, just funny) |
lol yes
i know it sounds shallow. i just didnt think it would be such a big deal to me. but now i know it is.
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NCOUGHMAN
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| JohnChimpo wrote: | True, but you're obviously attracted to her anyway though since you're already dating, right?
Or did you just settle for the first thing that came along after your busty ex dumped you? Wink |
i thought about this idea all night.
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CWood21
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 2:20 pm Post subject: Re: BornToFly's Relationship Advice V.14 |
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| BornToFly wrote: | | I want to thank everyone who helps make this thread a success over the years. I really appreciate it. So hard to believe another thread is on it's way. |
Thank you for all the help you've provided over the years.
| NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. |
Naturally there has to be some level of physical attraction. When you see a girl across the room at a bar, what's the first thing you see? I'll give you a hint, it's not her personality. I'm a big sucker for eyes/smile. |
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JohnChimpo
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| NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | JohnChimpo wrote: | True, but you're obviously attracted to her anyway though since you're already dating, right?
Or did you just settle for the first thing that came along after your busty ex dumped you? Wink |
i thought about this idea all night. |
Hmm... I was just messing with you, but if that's the case, you need to do some more hard thinking about it. It's not fair to string her along if you know deep down she's not right for you. |
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DubiDo0
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
Physical attraction is important, and is usually what draws two people together at first. Conversation and chemistry are even more important, though.
You'll learn quick that a hot woman who's a witch is not worth more than one night.
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| NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | JohnChimpo wrote: | True, but you're obviously attracted to her anyway though since you're already dating, right?
Or did you just settle for the first thing that came along after your busty ex dumped you? Wink |
i thought about this idea all night. |
Here's the ? I have to ask you, is it really about that, or is it maybe, just maybe, about the committment you think you might be moving towards? I have to think you aren't a complete [inappropriate/removed], so I'm thinking there is probably something deeper here.
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DubiDo0
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| animaltested wrote: | | Quote: | | Just got back from the second hang out with the Korean girl. Just like last te dinner was wee bit quiet due to he language barrier. But once we got to drinks it was a lot of conversation and laughing. I think she is just shy speaking English. This might be more of a friendship type of deal, which I'm cool with. Third hangout will be the gauge I assume. |
Repost from the locked thread.
Posting tipsy on the subway doesnt always have the best results. hhaha. |
If you want more than a friendship you need to make moves. Go for a smooch or some physical contact. It will only become more awkward until you do.
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BigBillsFan13
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| DalCowboyzRule wrote: | | BigBillsFan13 wrote: | | MrDrew wrote: | | kgarrett12486 wrote: | | NCOUGHMAN wrote: | | physical attraction has to be solid imo for a relationship to work. yea people change over the years. you can gain/lose weight, muscle, hair etc etc.but racks never go away. |
Not entirely true my friend. A lot of women can change in this department with weight loss and gain among other factors... |
The intention of this thread isn't to talk about racks. Let's have a little more respect than that. |
Lol, was thinking the same thing, Drewby.
Anyhow, to NCOUGHMAN, if that's your only measuring stick for beauty, it'll be a long time before you're in a healthy relationship. |
Says the guy with a Lucy Pinder sig. (not saying you're wrong, just funny) |
Who says I want to be in a "healthy" relationship with Lucy? 
Seriously though, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with liking that particular aspect of a woman, just that it shouldn't be considered the most important thing when evaluating beauty, and that if it is, it'll probably be a while before a meaningful relationship happens.
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